- PROJECTION
prə'dʒɛk.ʃən, proʊ'dʒɛk.ʃən noun. Unconscious transfer of one’s ideas to another person. - [Project
prə'dʒɛkt, proʊ'dʒɛkt verb.]
When we’re talking popular Christian culture’s version of Christianity, i.e.
Y’know, the evangelists told us when we come to Jesus, our whole life would have to change. But when we’re Christianist, we discover to our great pleasure and relief our lives really didn’t have to change much at all.
We had to learn a few new handy Christianese terms:
PAGAN WAY OF SAYING IT | CHRISTIAN WAY OF SAYING IT |
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“I think…” | “I just think God’s telling me…” |
“I strongly think…” | “God’s telling me…” |
“I feel…” | “I just feel in my spirit…” |
“I don’t wanna do that.” | “We should just take that to God in prayer.” |
“That scares me.” | “I just feel a check in my spirit.” |
“That pisses me off.” | “That just grieves my spirit.” |
“ | “I’ll pray for you.” |
and we learned a few handy ways to act more Christian. Like learning all the
As for what Jesus actually teaches, for actually following him: Christianists figure we do follow him. ’Cause we believe in him.
Problem is,
God’s ways are not our ways.
Filling in the blanks with ourselves.
We humans tend to believe, and prefer to believe, we’re normal. If we have a bit of pride, we’d like to imagine we’re above average in certain ways; if we have low self-esteem, below average. But we’d still like to think we know where the average is. We’re not that far different from everyone else. All humans are basically alike, right?
So when we see another person behave a certain way, and we don’t know their motives—we don’t think of ’em as an opponent or enemy or “bad guy”—most of the time we assume they think like we think. For the most part, optimists assume other people are optimists like them, and cynics assume other people are only out for number one—also like them. If we have good intentions, we figure they have good intentions. If we’d act that way out of generosity, we figure they’re generous. If we’d do such things out of spite, we assume they’re just as spiteful. And so on.
Psychologists call this trait the
Studies show just about everybody does this. ’Cause it’s easier to guess at other people’s motives than it is to come right out and ask them. It’s more satisfying to assume we know how people oughta be, than discover we don’t really understand human motives—including, when it gets right down to it, our own motives—all that well. It’s why we need to do psychology studies in the first place: We think we know what makes people tick, but a good study might show us people behave quite differently for very different reasons. (Heck, any political election where everybody votes for the other guy, exposes this fact!)
Now, that’s how we are with our fellow humans. How well do you think the false-consensus bias is gonna do when we apply it to God?
Well, we see it all over
And we definitely see it all over
Turns it into a loveless, faithless, joyless, impatient, angry,
Doubt yourself!
Let’s not assume any and every bright idea which pops into our heads comes straight from God. You might recall King David ben Jesse once had that experience.
2 Samuel 7.1-7 KWL - 1 It was when the king sat in his house, and the L
ORD gave him rest from all his enemies around, - 2 the king said to the prophet Nathan, “Now look:
- I sit in a cedar house, and God’s box sits surrounded by a curtain.”
- 3 Nathan told the king, “Go do everything you have in mind. The L
ORD ’s with you.” - 4 But it was that night the L
ORD ’s word told Nathan:- 5 “Go tell my slave David the L
ORD says this: Will you build me a house to sit in?- 6 For I’ve not sat in a house from when I brought Israel’s sons out of Egypt to this day.
- I’ve been traveling in a tent, a tabernacle, 7 in all the places I walked with all Israel’s sons.
- Did I speak a word to one of Israel’s shepherd-staffs, which I wield to pastor my people Israel,
- to say, ‘Why don’t you build me a cedar house?’ ”
- 5 “Go tell my slave David the L
Nope, building the temple wasn’t the L
But they’re not. Never were. David appreciated having a cedar house, and assumed the L
Years ago I came up with a shortcut that I figured would catch most of my own acts of projection before I run amok with them. I don’t guarantee it works 100 percent of the time. After all, that temple idea seems to fit it. Still, here it is.
K.W. LESLIE’S SHORTCUT TO GOD’S WILL |
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If it makes God look good, and doesn’t make you look good (and possibly even makes you look a little stupid) it’s probably God. But if it makes you look good, it’s you. |
No, my shortcut isn’t based on the belief God wants us to look dumb. It’s because most of our presumed “God-ideas” come with an ulterior motive: We wanna look important, mighty, clever, holy, or otherwise good. Our “God-ideas” aren’t rooted in the pursuit of God, but human selfishness.
So once we realize there’s a little bit of personal reward involved in our “God-ideas”:
Our worry about looking stupid: If it’s really God, it’s an unfounded concern.
Again, this is only a shortcut, not a guarantee. It’s a quick-’n-dirty way to rethink our knee-jerk Christianist reactions. Instead of assuming every clever idea we have—or every clever thing some other Christian tells you—is a God-idea, stop. Think. Study the scriptures. Ask the Holy Spirit for direction. Look before you leap. Never assume.