
Matthew 5.21-22.
Here’s the first of the “Ye have heard… but I say unto you” parts of
Jesus begins with anger. ’Cause people get angry. Even Jesus got angry.
Matthew 5.21-22 KWL 21 “You hear the oldtimers say,- ‘You will not murder,
Ex 20.13, Dt 5.17 - and whoever might murder will be found guilty’?
22 I tell you:- Everyone who’s been made angry by their sibling,
- {for no good reason,} will be found guilty.
- Anyone who might tell their sibling, ‘You waste of space,’
- will be guilty under the Judean senate.
- Anyone who might say, ‘You moron,’
- will be guilty in fiery Gehenna.”
Other bibles tend to translate
“You will not murder.” It’s in the
Yep, throughout biblical times, including in Jesus’s day, murders and lynchings and fights that turned deadly happened all the time. And what’s the origin of most of these deaths? Anger.
Too often, anger for no good reason—which is why somebody inserted the word
Nope; murder is murder. Don’t.
Mental murder.
Naïvely, most Christians nowadays assume Jesus can’t possibly be talking about actual murder. Why, he lived in a civilized country; why, we live in a civilized country. People don’t just murder like that. (Except, y’know, they do. Got any friends and family members who’ve been murdered? I do. We all do.)
And in some cases, preachers wanna tighten the screws of what Jesus means here, and apply it to as many people as possible. So they claim this passage isn’t about
What on earth is a spiritual murder? Well, y’know, hating somebody so much they’re dead to you. They’re not literally dead, but they may as well be. You’ve killed them in your mind.
Now, are we talking about people who’ve disowned certain family members, and have nothing more to do with them? Believe it or not, we’re not. Because plenty of conservative Christians do this. When you’ve got a family member who’s sinning and unrepentant, plenty of Christians simply push ’em out of their lives. Got a kid who’s promiscuous and selfish and otherwise indulges in carnal behavior? Cut ’em off. Got a cousin who’s a member of the other political party, and won’t stop backing candidates who offend you? Block ’em on social media and never speak to them. Now, I can understand this behavior if these people are criminal or abusive, and letting them in your life puts you in danger. (I’d even encourage it.) But plenty of American Christians have people in their family who are now “dead” to them—and often over petty things; the very things the Greek word eikí represents.
And weirdly, most conservative preachers don’t rebuke this behavior. Even though this should fall right into the stuff they’re talking about whenever they claim Jesus is speaking of “spiritual murder.” But y’know, it’s likely because they’re doing it too. It’s rare you’ll find a preacher who hasn’t blocked people from their lives because they’re just so offended by their sins. Heck, some of them will proudly say so! Which is a shame, because it’s entirely unlike Jesus’s behavior. Our Lord ate with sinners—and sinners he wasn’t even related to.
Nope, when preachers talk about spiritually murdering someone, they usually describe it thisaway: “They’re dead to you; you imagined them dead.” Maybe even imagined you murdered ’em. For extra fun, maybe you pictured it as gruesome, painful, slow, grim torture. In any event the usual Christian teaching is, “That was bad, and you should feel bad for feeling that way.”
Okay, I confess, I have imagined killing people. I haven’t in a mighty long time, but in the past, I certainly have. Thought, “I’d be so easy to shove him in front of a train right now.” But I didn’t act on it, because I wouldn’t act on it, because murder is wrong. And it’s actually not sin to have those thoughts cross your mind—it’s temptation. It’s sin to act upon them, but not sin to be tempted. Everybody gets tempted.
Jesus didn’t give in to those temptations to kill. We know the L
I know; a number of Christians are gonna insist, “But he’s Jesus! He’s an exception.” No he’s not an exception. That was the whole point of him becoming human: He lived an authentic human life. Went through the very same experiences we do. But he did it right, so he could demonstrate how we should behave.
Now, this doesn’t give us license to let our imaginations run amok, and plot the violent destruction of everyone who annoys us, on the grounds if we never act on any of it, it’s all good. There’s a vast difference between our minds wandering thataway, and us directing our minds thataway. Fantasize about murder long enough, and the moment we lose control of our faculties for any reason—we’re drunk, stoned, medicated, senile, sleepwalking, out of our minds with fear or rage—we’re gonna murder. Happens all the time. It’s why God hates when we plot evil.
Don’t indulge temptation, and you’ll be fine. When your mind wanders there, rein it in. Pull it back. Resist. And relax; you didn’t sin. Yet.
Guilty guilty guilty.
Jesus’s next bit, in which he talks about anyone who’s merely angry with a sibling getting found guilty, is also regularly interpreted as
The people of Israel lived under Roman occupation. Yes, they had their own town councils; yes, the Judeans even had
This was the case for most of human history. Human rights weren’t recognized as a valid thing until the new states of the United States started putting ’em in our constitutions. And even then, blacks didn’t receive them for the longest time; Jim Crow laws either took them away outright, or looked the other way as whites murdered people. Other countries still won’t guarantee rights to their citizens… and even in countries which have rights, their governments frequently think of them as government-given instead of God-given. We Americans live in very unique circumstances. But if the fascists have their way, that’ll be over soon, and you’ll get to experience firsthand how fleeting your rights to live freely can be.
The Roman Empire was also an extremely corrupt empire. If you wanted to make trouble for another person, you easily could. In many parts of the world, it’s still way too easy to get your enemies killed. All you gotta do is bribe the right ruler. Or make a paranoid ruler think your enemy might be a problem.
So if you got angry, and you got angry with the wrong people, or got angry in front of the wrong people, it very well could get you killed. Like calling your sibling a
So you really didn’t wanna step on anyone’s toes back then. Your anger could get you killed. And no, Jesus isn’t speaking in hyperbole: Literally killed. His listeners needed to clamp down on their own anger, and they needed to make absolutely certain nobody else had anything against them. ’Cause if they did, it’d be trouble. It can still be trouble for us nowadays, if our enemies wanna strive hard enough against us.
Angry Christians who ignore this teaching.
As you’re well aware, there are such creatures as
Except it does. Y’notice Jesus points out our anger might also get us in trouble with “fiery Gehenna” (
Christians tend to think of
If you likewise want nothing to do with God and his kingdom, and prefer a life of rage and vengeance and strife
So here’s one of many warnings against indulging in Pharisee-like “righteous anger” against sinners, pagans, fellow believers, people who slight us, people who mock us, anyone. Like James said, anger doesn’t produce righteousness, and we need to be wary of it when we feel it.
And we need to be reconciled with others who are angry at us. That’s in the next passage.
